I have a limited education in science, having taken science subjects up to first-year university level. I have a bachelor's degree (not a B.Sc) and consider myself somewhat informed on a range of science-related topics; yet in my communications with professional scientists I sometimes feel that I'm being talked down to. Judging by my observations, and discussions with other non-scientists, this feeling is not uncommon. There are of course many exceptions, but I feel that scientists are sometimes poor ambassadors for their vocation.
Still, this is not a reason to shy away from dialogue with science and scientists. Speaking as a member of the paranormal community (meaning, the loose affiliation of those interested in studying any or all categories of what is termed 'the paranormal') we need scientists! They don't need us, but we need them. So, beware of taking on science as an adversary. Even if venting about science and skeptics (critical thinkers) makes you feel temporarliy better about yourself, it will ultimately be counterproductive.
There is a developing schism between scientific thought and some sectors of the public. A disturbing anti-science attitude is developing especially strongly in fundamentalist Christian (and some other relgion-based) societial groups. This is most notable in the so called Bible Belt of the US, where (for example) there is a growing resistance to the teaching of Evolution in schools, as it is perceived as being counter to the word of God. 'Intelligent design' is taught in some schools instead of Evolution theory, which is banned. This is of great concern to many.
Perhaps as an offshoot, or because it's becoming the zeitgeist (scary as that may seem), this anti-science schism is also developing in the paranormal community. At the root of this attitude is ignorance of science. What follows is the demonising of science. (Demonising things or people is something we humans do when we lack understanding and we perceive something as different from or counter to our culture and way of thinking. Demonising a perceived enemy is essential if you want to declare war on them. Nazi Germany's actions against the Jews is one extreme example.)
And, as I stated above, we in the paranormal community need science and scientists. Alienating them further is going to lower the probabilty of any kind of advancement in the field, any chance of finding answers to those massive questions that drew us to the paranormal in the first place.
In our general attitude and in our communications, in person and online though our websites, blogs and social media presence, it is important to not fan the anti-science fire. Isolation is bad. We're not going to crack any of it by ourselves. If we think we are, we're kidding ourselves.
To be frank, we in the paranormal community simply do not have the skills, professional training, time and resources, working methods or sheer intelligence needed to find the answers to the huge questions. Questions like 'Why do people experience ghosts?', 'Do ghosts exist in an objective sense, or are they just the result of subjective experience?, What is the nature of and reason for reported Near Death Experience?', 'Does intelligent life, or any life at all, exist elsewhere in the universe?', 'Is telepathy an actual or imagined phenomenon, and if real, how does it work?' The list could go on, but my point is that amateur paranormal enthusiasts have been spectacularly unsuccessful at answering any of these questions. The accumulation of evidence and the interpretation of it has been, so far, only sufficient to reinforce the beliefs of those who already believe. Optimistic agnostics (like me) are still unconvinced of the reality of any of it, and the scientists and skeptics remain scathing in their dismissal of everything paranormal, and of the people who believe in it.
(1) Paranormalists need to stop being antagonistic towards scientists and other skeptics. Lead by example. Become better informed; learn about critical thinking and scientific method; try to understand things from the rational perspective of the scientist. (I'm not for one moment suggesting you abandon your personal belief, your quest for truth, knowledge and understanding, or your spiritual vision; just maybe try to learn to look at things from more than one perspective.)
(2) Stop making ridiculous and unsubstantiated claims. Claims of being abucted by aliens, seeing Bigfoot, seeing a full-body apparition, etc, are ludicrous if not backed up by hard evidence. And this evidence must come from credible, reliable sources, not from people perceived as attention-seeking whackos. Ridiculous claims of paranormal events are the laughing stock of thinking people and besmirch the entire field of paranormal study and everybody concerned with it.
(3) Build credibilty, and gather and present good evidence. Eventually, the scientists will pay attention and think that maybe there is something here worth studying.
If we don't have the humility to appreciate that these great questions we seek answers for have been around for hundreds, if not thousands of years (or longer, in some cases) and have defeated far more powerful intellects than our own, we will get nowhere. We need to work together with science, not against it.